“Mother must have time to herself. And we must not say ‘I cannot.’ Can any of us say till we have tried, not for one week, but for one whole year, day after day, that we ‘cannot’ get one half-hour out of the twenty-four for ‘Mother Culture?’–one half-hour in which we can read, think, or ‘remember.'” Parents’ Review, Vol. 2, No. 2
I’m going to make this quick today in order to give you a bit more time to think about spending ten minutes today reading, creating, or in prayer. Right now, if you are a bullet journal or Happy Planner or whatever other type of planning system type of gal, write down a plan for when you can spend those ten minutes alone and what you will do. That plan may not work out, but knowing it is there in the plan means that if you find ten minutes in the carpool line or the parking lot after grocery shopping or wherever else, you’ll have it front of mind to use those minutes for some Mother Culture time.
Once the time is allotted into your planning system, prepare the things you need. Get your book uploaded into your Kindle or throw your book into your purse. Get your knitting stuff together now, and make sure your pattern is printed. Locate a rosary or a journal or your gardening gloves now, so when that ten minutes comes around, you’re ready to spend it well.
Lastly, do it. When you’re tempted to check your email instead or facebook or Instagram… don’t. Put your phone down instead. If the planned time comes and the baby is crying, that’s ok. Perhaps your ten minutes will come later than expected and you’ll be more tired than expected and all you’ll want to do is lay down on the couch and zone out. Fight the urge and just take ten minutes to dedicate to prayer or your gratitude journal if reading a book is too much. Or, just read that book anyway and maybe you’ll feel more revived afterward.
When you’ve taken your ten minutes, assess if that time worked well or if perhaps it could be at a different time of day. Either way, plan to do it again tomorrow. Look at your day and pencil it in. Then, schedule it in for each day. Make this your new habit for one month and then see how it is working for you. Perhaps then you’ll be ready to add in another ten minutes? Or ten for prayer and ten for reading and ten for creativity? Let’s not get ahead of ourselves… start with ten today!